I’ve had a week off and come back to a pile of emails etc, its part of the course being self employed. Yet one email has caused me frustration and anger – both are negative emotions and both well within my own sphere of control.
So what do you do when frustration hits?
It takes an incredible amount of energy to stay angry. Energy that I know I would be much better off putting to other things, things that could result in a positive outcome.
I’ve tried to answer the following questions.
- What do I gain from being angry?
- What can I do to improve the current situation?
- What would I gain if I put my energy into doing something else?
When I have the answers to these questions, it become clear where best to direct my energy.
Negative emotions can take up a huge amount of energy, give Carolyn a call today on 07714 216388 for your free consultation to see what coaching could help you achieve instead.
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